The tattoo (or lack thereof)

A few people have asked, and the answer is no. I didn't get the tattoo.

Yet.

For two reasons. 1) I'm terrible at making decisions, and with something this permanent and non-reversable, I had to be sure I was 100% confident in what I was getting and where. But I just wasn't. I overwhelmed myself with the choices, and suddenly Tattoo Day was here, and I wasn't sure what I wanted. 2) I'm pretty sure I want the tattoo on my foot, and after hearing all your advice, I realized I might be smart to wait until spring when I can sport flip flops while it heals. The tattoo artist confirmed this for me and said it's a good idea to wait.

So I just went as moral support for my friend who got her tattoos. The guy did a good job and I think I'll go see him when I'm ready. For now, I've bought myself a little time to figure out what exactly I want. Before I decide, you know I'll be asking your opinion again. I can't make decisions without you people!

Comments

[Kt]

I think waiting is a great idea. When it's something so permanent, I completely agree that it's best to take your time to make sure you're getting precisely what you want!

[A.]

I agree with waiting. I have a rule that if I found a tattoo I liked and still wanted it a year later, that probably means I could live with it. I had a tattoo designed for me, and a year later, I wasn't so sure anymore. Now, I know I can live without.

My husband is thinking about a tattoo having to do with a career change he'll be making next year. I've asked him to think about my rule, especially since he wants it on his arm - very visible.

I think spring is a perfect time, and if you're still anxious to get it all those months later, that's probably a good sign. :)

[Walter]

You have made a good decision in waiting. Tatoos are permanent and you have to think the pros and cons of having one. It should be something you want for yourself and not something that will fit you to somebody. :-)